You Had Me at Bonjour: A Midlife Memoir of Romance and Reinvention

Author Bio: Dufflyn Lammers

Dufflyn Lammers, the American Love Coach in Paris, is represented by the Gusay Literary Agency in Los Angeles. She is a slam poet, writer, and leading relationship expert. Lammers has been published in the Los Angeles Times, Business Insider, Santa Fe Writers Project, The Good Life Review, Iowa Woman, and elsewhere. She co-edited the spoken word anthology Chorus with Saul Williams, 2014. Lammers is anthologized in Poetry Slam: The Competitive Art of Performance Poetry, edited by Gary Glazner, 2000. She was awarded the 2018 Silver Medal Solas Award for Travel Writing in the Love category by Traveler’s Tales. She has been a regular contributor at TheFix.com and InTheRooms.com, the world’s leading resources for addiction and recovery news. Her one-woman show Discovered debuted on the West End in London, in May 2017 and was nominated for the Duende award at the Hollywood Fringe Festival in 2018. She has appeared on Russell Simmons Def Poetry Jam, Criminal Minds, Entourage, and in Belly from Artisan Films. In 2011 she wrote, produced, and starred in the short film Raven. Lammers is the founder of Dufflyn.com, where she offers online courses, a membership, and one-to-one coaching for women who want to create secure relationships. Her work combines Tantra, Attachment Repair, Intervention, and Coaching techniques to help women create optimum relational wellbeing. She has the best Frida Kahlo costume you’ve ever seen, a self-described “hyena laugh,” and can often be found wandering the streets of Paris looking for Hellman’s Mayonnaise.